The Ancient Greek (regarded by many Roman historians as the last true Greek, that is historians which were Roman and not historians studying Rome), Philopoemen, was baffled, possibly because he was trying to understand the difference between Roman historians and Roman historians. Having, as a youth, just joined the army he was informed that, to make the soldiers the able to endure exhaustion and hunger, they were perpetually kept in a state of exhaustion and hunger. Later, when Philopoemen became a General of the army, he reversed the position. Now, if a soldier was kept, by their self, or others, in a state of perpetual exhaustion and hunger, they would be severely disciplined. Whilst I cannot speak for the thinking of Philopoemen, it seems that this was his thought pattern.
To be in a state of perpetual exhaustion and hunger was not a good state to be in:
To keep the state continued was deemed to be good behaviour, encouraged, and ergo became the default notion of ‘good behaviour’
To be in a state of relaxation (i.e. not exhausted or hungry) was deemed to be bad behaviour, punished, and ergo became the default notion of ‘bad behaviour’.
Now, we do not need to be psychiatrist to see that the former has severe damage to the body and mind and the later is a desired, ‘normal’ state to be in as the body needs the balance but, the very fact that it took a giant, such as Philopoemen, to not only see this but to also do something about it, should concern us. Why? Because the same happens in our society.
We have oft heard, or even said, the truism, ‘fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me’, meaning that if we have trusting natures and those natures are exploited then we can say that we were trusting and were wronged. However, the truism then goes on to say that if we are fooled again then we are to blame for still being trusting.
Let’s break this down. To fool a person (I’m speaking in malicious terms not just hiding shoes etc.) is an act which stems from insecurities. We know the saying that liars do not trust anyone else and to be a liar is not a good thing so to fool a person, once, is a bad thing. However, the correction to this behaviour, it seems, is for the one who was fooled, the one who was trusting, to change their behaviour and to become not trusting, like all of those people we meet who brag about not trusting anyone.
As we have just seen, to be untrustworthy is a bad state and to trust is a good state. Yet, the solution for one being treated badly is not for the one who committed the act of bad faith to amend their behaviour and become ‘good’, rather it is for the one who was good, leading to them being fooled, to become untrusting, to go from a good state into a bad state.
This concept is not reserved only to the army and untrue truisms, it permeates every aspect of our culture. Bad behaviours are rewarded, and good behaviours are punished. Take the workplace, for example. If one gossips, one is seen as being part of the ‘in-crowd’, and gossiping is passed off as ‘something that just happens’. If one refrains from gossiping, then one is made an outcast by the ‘in-crowd’. Let’s summarise this- bad behaviour is rewarded and good behaviour is punished. Here it gets interesting as one has to ask, why? Sadly, the answer is not as interesting as the question. It comes down to education. Just as the Greeks would reward those who suffered needlessly, it took Philopoemen imposing negative reinforcement to bad behaviours to get people to change to good behaviours.
Humans as a whole are a weak species, born of insecurities and fear. Thusly, instead of trying to elevate themselves, they create a hegemony and expect all to conform or be ostracised. Whether or not what Aaron Sorkin writes in his television show, The Newsroom (to change one word- full speech in context below)
‘We aspired to [goodness], we didn’t belittle it. It didn’t make us feel inferior’
Is true, neither you nor I can say. However, it seems clear that as long as bad behaviours are aspired towards and reinforced, the truism ‘fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me’, will continue to be seen as true and the truism which should take its place, ‘fool me once, educate yourself and become a better person who doesn’t need to reply on deception to try to feel better about who they are as a person’. It’s a funny thing, but if you want to be ‘good’, if you try really, really hard to act as though you are good, then, who knows, you may just become good. Yes, it is much harder than creating a mythology to support your bad behaviour but, deep down, don’t you want your life to actually stand for something, something good?
‘till next time
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‘…We stood up for what was right. We fought for moral reason. We passed laws, struck down laws, for moral reason. We waged wars on poverty, not on poor people. We sacrificed, we cared about our neighbours, we put our money where our mouths were, and we never beat our chest. We built great, big things, made ungodly technological advances, explored the universe, cured diseases and we cultivated the world’s greatest artists AND the world’s greatest economy. We reached for the stars, acted like men. We aspired to intelligence; we didn’t belittle it. It didn’t make us feel inferior. We didn’t identify ourselves by who we voted for in the last election and we didn’t scare so easy. We were able to be all these things and do all these things because we were informed… by great men, men who were revered. First step in solving any problem is recognizing there is one.’
Aaron Sorkin