Overcoming of Self: The Birth of Misery

Regular readers may note that over the last few months (maybe longer, I am very repetitive) we have looked at the concept of the oppression of the true self, one’s true nature. We looked at how pet ownership is seen as an acceptable form of slavery as by being domesticated, as would a slave, the animal no longer has the freedom to be their own true self. Yes, there are arguments that, for example, cats and dogs enjoy being pets, however, the literature, both fictional and otherwise, clearly note that this stems from a form of ignorance of the animals as those taken from the ‘wild’ or reintroduced into the ‘wild’ generally have better wellbeing than those in captivity (think, for example how the dorsal fin of the orca (killer whale) bends over in captivity and stands fully erect in its natural environment). One might find it absurd to look at animals from a human perspective, and vice versa, however, the parallels are undeniable. It was once discovered that male songbirds generate new braincells every morning in order to sing. It was asked if humans did the same. This question was shot down instantly by a snobbery saying that what applies to animals cannot apply to superior species, i.e. humans. It was then shown, many years later, that what we call neurogenesis, also takes place within humans and decades of oppression by ignorance fell away. Darwin, likewise, in his book ’The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals’ shows that animal faces often contort in the same manner as humans to express the same emotions.

But what has this to do with human happiness? As we have seen alluded to above, animals are happiest in their natural state, and so, if the parallels hold true, must humans be happiest in their natural state. Before I noted that humans are the most domesticated of all creatures and imposes this upon animals, but the question must be how does this come to be? The answer, again, lies in the work over the past few months. Increasingly (rather slowly, I must add) I have noted how a culture is dependant upon a hegemony. Yes, I knew of this before, but it is only recently I have come to start to understand just how deeply it pervades and how it comes about. From an early age, children are taught the notion of right and wrong. Now this teaching is not stemming from an ethic, or even a theology (for example Christianity), rather it is stemming from the personal beliefs of those who educate the child. And herein lies the rub for if one is educated by one who stems not from an ethical philosophy which one practices (remember the psychologist Alfred Adler’s notion that it is easier to fight for you values than it is to live by them) but rather from a domestication into a hegemony, then the behaviours, as we have seen over the previous months, may not be good behaviours, rather they may be bad behaviours which are reinforced by the whole and thusly good behaviours are seen as bad and vice versa. The German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer sums this up brilliantly in an aphorism:

‘Every miserable fool who has nothing at all of which he can be proud, adopts as a last resource pride in the nation to which he belongs; he is ready and happy to defend all its faults and follies tooth and nail, thus reimbursing himself for his own inferiority’    

And from this we can ask, why are they miserable? To answer this question, we must look again art the example of animals in captivity. Yes, there may be a degree of contentedness in the animal in captivity but this stems from ignorance. Life might be harder if one is free to follow one’s own true self, but there is no prize which can compensate from the oppression of freedom to be one’s self. If one’s true self is repressed, then one can never realise one’s own potential and become their self and thusly when one is oppressed one starts to experience negative emotions. We have often heard the truism that ‘misery loves company’, but with all truism we must take this with a grain of salt and ask the validity of the said truism. Let us consider ‘misery’. If misery is in a permanent state, in itself, then to be miserable is its natural state and thusly it is, contractionary, happiest in its state of misery (think of the personification of this notion in the misanthrope). If misery is in a transitionary state then it will have two poles- happiness and misery (if indeed these are opposite poles, I think that misery and non-misery or happy and non-happy would be more applicable, the root depending on your demeanour) and it will be more sated to be in the state of ‘happy’ than of ‘sad’, and thusly its energies will be spent on trying to become happy, to use Freud’s words devoid of his meaning, a pleasure principle. Yet here is where, as with the animals, they become a reflection of those who use them for their whims, i.e. humans. If a person is miserable, as Schopenhauer sates, due to their natural state being oppressed then this misery is not a pure state of ‘misery’, rather it is a human bastardisation of the state and the ‘fool’, in Schopenhauer’s words, will not see  misery as a pure state which finds joy in itself, nor will he find misery as a transitionary state which yearns for joy, rather he sees misery as being the limit of his ability, a misery born of the frustration and anger and despair of the oppression of their true self, and instead of attempting to elevate themselves, they will take the quick and easy path and attempt to drag others down to their level. However, this does not then make them happy, as deep down they know that they are rotten, rather this constant attempt to take pleasure in the suffering of others, especially if caused by the one feeling miserable, does nothing more than continue the cycle in which one’s true self is sacrificed, not for love or the wellbeing of all, but rather for the darkness and pain that one feels when one is willingly caged out of fear of their own true self.

‘till next time       

The Way the World Is

When I was a child, sometimes, when I saw a homeless person, I would detour around the block so as to avoid them. This was done for two reasons 1) I am a coward and 2) I knew that I was powerless to help them. Later, I learnt that other people had the power to help them but did not. Indeed, one would often be warned not to give money to the homeless as they would just spend it on alcohol and drugs, and so the image was created, those who could help shouldn’t.

We live in times of genocide, starvation, disease and war. Then again, every age has. Ours is no different to many that have come before, even if now we are, spectacularly, aiding and abetting in our own misery. The surreal thing is that this information is not new, and even more concerning, it is not shocking. There are demagogues on both sides of the supposed argument (I say supposed as we shall see later, there is no real sides in these issues). From the Iranian president denying the Holocaust, from Russia and China standing by as Armenians live on the brink of extinction, from Europe and the US observing these and doing nothing, we see these behaviours unfurling before our eyes. Then we have the likes of Greta Thunberg who sets out to hold the big countries to ‘account’, by doing as they do, spouting biased information into an echo chamber whilst those who are in it hear what they want to hear and echo it back.

From geopolitics to interpersonal politics (which are, essentially, the same thing), dark and disturbing behaviours go unchecked. There are few more humiliating and powerless feelings than when one goes up to someone, lays out the arguments, e.g. these things are happening, they are wrong, and the person to whom they speaks, pats them on the head and goes, yes, you are right, but that’s the way the world is.

Let’s pause for a moment. One has seen something bad happening. One approaches one who can help to change it. The response is yes, you are right, but… Let’s look at this response a little more. The former part lays out that the said behaviours which have been raised are correct. It is also stated that the said behaviours are behaviours that are bad, for example, illegal, unethical etc. It is then stated that these behaviours, although wrong, are considered perfectly normal. Wait, genocide, war, famine are wrong but normal? How does one square that circle?

The answer, sadly, lies at the feet of the individual. The individual has said that it is wrong, but it is the way the world is. Let’s break this down. The individual is saying that although these behaviours are bad behaviours nothing can be done. Yet, something can be done, but to do so it would take two of the rarest commodities, bravery and conviction- two terms which fall under the same category- responsibility.

It is argued that institutions are all corrupted and can do no good, indeed, what we hear in the media supports this claim. However, as with most things, what we hear in the media is about 1% of the reality. Yes, the Christian church has had issues with the sexual abuse of children. This is in no way right and those who perpetrate such actions, including the cover-ups, should be hunted down and caged for the rest of their natural born lives (after that is beyond my pay scale). Yes, there are people who commit appalling acts and then say they are working the will of their God, but, statistically, those who become radicalised or commit terrible, terrible acts of harm are few and far between. The Church (be is Christian, Muslim, Jewish etc.) carries out many, many great works of humanity and compassion. Those who have God in their hearts make some of the most unbelievable acts of self-sacrifice to help others, all stemming from one concept. Personal Responsibility.

Our institutions and leaders may commit acts of unspeakable cruelty and terror, often in the name of the Glory of Rome, but we are the ones complicit. We are the ones who suckle at the teat of our hegemonies and say, ‘please, please, don’t look at me, please, please don’t make me responsible for me’, we are the ones who see a child beaten and avert our eyes, praying that we won’t be called to account for our actions. We are the cowardly children walking 5/10 minutes out of their way just to avoid the homeless lady trying to survive. And until we stand up and look in the mirror and say to ourselves, ‘who should we be, who do I really want to be?’, the sad refrain will echo in our ears until the last human slinks off the coast to watch the sun setting over the great ocean of time,

It’s just the way the world is.

‘till next time    

Why the Truth is Always Beautiful (part 1)

The other day, I was rereading the first book that I can recall reading cover to cover as a child. It was very exciting. Ben the Dog received a phone call asking him if he was going for tea. He replied that he may not as he had a slight headache. Deb the Mouse then called another of their friends to report that Ben the Dog may not be going for tea as he had a splitting headache. Meg the Hen then called another friend to say that Ben the Dog may not be going to tea as he had blood coming out of his ears (this is not verbatim, as you may have guessed), and so on and so forth. When the friends met for tea, one remarked surprise that Ben the Dog had arrived, having been told that he was suffering from an mild case of decapitation, to which Ben the Dog replies, oh the headache has gone, I drank some H two Oh!

In this unfaithful recitation of the narrative, I am doing exactly as the other characters did, but what is that, and why?   Well, to add a notion of reducto absurdum to the narrative, I exaggerated the contents of the conversations between the animals (kids these days may be a bit confused with this tale, not by my use of Latin, nor of animals talking, but the notion of a telephone), to empathise my point. The point herein is that, consciously or unconsciously, the animals exaggerate the contents of the tale so that the story becomes more ‘exciting’. One might say, ah but Ben the Dog having a headache and possibly not going to tea is a story with great suspense and a real cliff-hanger- up there with, will Odysseus return home or what is up with Bruce Willis in The Sixth Sense, or is Darth Vader really Luke’s papa? And we would be right to do so, however, not all readers, or people, have such a refined palate as you and I, dear readers! By exaggerating the story, the animals are doing two things 1) making it more exciting and 2) making themselves feel part of it. As George Bernard Shaw said, the things that most people want to know about is usually none of their business and, to add to that, the things people want to be involved in are usually nothing to do with them.

The truth, as we have said many times is mostly subjective. There may be absolute Truths, and we will look at this in the future, but for now we must think that there are truths, with a lower t, truths such as that Ben the Dog has a headache. It may not be that exciting or sexy, but it is a simple truth. From this we have all the information that we need. Ben the Dog has plans to go to tea. However, he may not go for tea as he is feeling slightly unwell. Any embellishment on this tale may add to the ‘drama’ but detracts away from its beauty, the beauty being the simplicity of truth. Do the embellishments of the tale change the basic truth? No, regardless the state is binary- he will or will not go for tea. Is the likelihood that he will or will not go to tea changed by the embellishments of the story? No. So what actual value can be had by the embellishments of the story? Well, as we have said there is a presumed personal benefit to those telling the story but this stands from one reason and that is the insecurities of those involved in the telephone chain, the very fact that all must ‘know’, alone speaks to this. Yes, Aristotle said that we are all social creatures, but that does not mean that one can gossip and, essentially, lie, to try to gain one’s own social standing.

Just imagine how much we could have gotten from the book if it was, say 8 pages instead of just 7!

‘till next time

Scapegoats and What They Say About Society

In olden times a ceremony would be held in which an animal would be filled with all of the sins of the village. The animal (possibly a goat- ah!) would be led to the edge of the village and ritually slaughtered. As with a tax return, the village would be cleaned of sin for the last year and would then be able to start again with a clean slate. Other cultures went a tad further, such as the Aztecs, and would sacrifice young virgin girls (usually the most beautiful so it would probably have been a blessing to be born aesthetically ugly!). The whole notion of cleansing sin through bloodshed is utterly absurd and with the enlightenment was done away with, or was it?   

In the 17th Century, in the small Massachusetts town of Salem strange things were afoot, most notably superstition and paranoia. It was decided that this was the work of witches and a few women, a couple of men and some dogs (huh?) were put to death, the practice only ending when the leader of the town’s wife was accused and he decided the whole thing was just a bit silly.

The shedding of blood is a practice deep with pagan meaning and ritual, yet, now in the age in which we live such practices as the blood and body being spilt to cleanse sin is absurd, except, maybe, if you are a Christian and practice the art of communion. During communion, one ingests wine and bread, in what is known as transubstantiation, whilst the priest intones, ‘this is the body of Christ broken for you, this is the blood of Christ, shed for you’.

Let’s go back a little bit. The story of Jesus is thus. As to the divinity of Jesus, that is incidental for what matters was his actions in life. Jesus came along and saw the state of the world. He saw that people had fallen from God, by which I mean ‘God is Love’ and were acting in a manner of the utmost greed and sin. Jesus, upon seeing this, declared that those things which we held to have value had none, and what had real value was forgotten and ignored (he was an early Oscar Wilde, it seems). Jesus said that all that matters is kindness, love and compassion. Upon hearing these words people were stirred up. The love and compassion in him, the undeniable goodness in him, was inspirational to the people and, thusly, they had him executed. The French philosopher Albert Camus wrote ‘people hasten to judge so as not to be judged themselves’ and this seems apt here.  The same has happened throughout history as, to paraphrase Mark Twain, when a good man appears the dunces form a confederacy against him. We can look at the blood splattered pages of history to see this is so.

But why is this, and surely it doesn’t happen now, though? Ah, look at society and look at the reaction of people. A person is raped- shouldn’t have been wearing a short skirt.  A person is killed for having a different colour skin- should go back to their country. A person is driven to suicide by bullying due to a disability- the person wasn’t normal. And so on, and so forth. Yet the question must be why, how could this possibly happen? Again, we return to Camus. If a person is killed due to their skin colour or disability or raped due to their gender, then we have two choices 1) accept the moral bankruptcy of us which then becomes the norm in society and attempt to understand and change or 2) fall into the protective hegemony and blame the ‘other’ for being different.

Can you guess what most people do?

‘till next time