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The other day I was listening to an interview with the United States Senator Amy Klobuchar, being conducted by the British economics magazine, The Economist.
The interview was on Big Tech and monopolies, e.g. Amazon, Google, Facebook etc. but after the main interview the interviewer, Anne McElvoy, asked Ms Klobuchar about, confirmed, reporting of behaviours from her which would fall under the category of bullying. Ms Klobuchar responded by saying that we, to paraphrase, live and learn. Ms McElvoy then went into reminiscences about how, when she was starting out in the media (she is in her later 50s now), people used to throw phones at people and engage in other behaviour which seems to fit under the bracket of bullying (if you have read Michael Lewis’ memoir about his time at trading firm Salomon Brothers, Liar’s Poker, you will have a rough idea of the kind of things that went on in business in the 1980s). Ms McElvoy then asked Ms Klobuchar if the actions would have been reported if she were a man.
Let’s break this down. An elected official is asked if she bullies people. Her answer/non-answer says yes. The journalist then shares, with delight it seems from hr voice, happy memories about when she used to be witness, and possibly party, to such behaviours. This was then passed of as something we probably couldn’t do now…
The argument being made here is that bullying behaviour which used to be acceptable is no longer acceptable as people are too soft, an argument you hear often. For example, in football, former players brag how managers would grab players by their throats and scream at them whilst smashing their heads against the wall. Sir Alex Ferguson’s legendary ‘hairdryer treatment’, where he would go face to face with someone and scream abuse at them is seen as something which, unfortunately, is no longer in the game. The likes of Graeme Souness, who once instructed a player (Don Hutchinson) to ‘two-foot’ (jump in at them with two feet which is now known as a ‘leg-breaker’ tackle/foul) so that the opposition manager would be angry so that Souness could fight him and Roy Keane, who once deliberately broke another player’s legs, ending his career, as revenge for an accident where the other player injured Keane, are paraded over the television to slam players for being ‘too soft’ and not being as they were as players and managers.
One was to look at this is that people are ‘too soft’ (bloody millennials). Another way to look at this is that behaviour which would result in prison time probably should not be acceptable in sport or politics or finance or media etc.
The second part of the defence, that Ms Klobuchar is female, is as insulting to women as it is to men. The suggesting being that bad behaviour is good, unless women do it and are unfairly called out on it.
Whilst it would be nice to see these as isolated events, everywhere in society we see the same such behaviours. Recent movements in gender and social equality, and the opposition that they receive, just goes to show that away from the individual and enablers carrying out such actions, these actions are very serious and can have lasting, and at times tragic (suicide, for one), consequences. That they are still able to carry on in the 21st Century just goes to show that this problem is deep-rooted within society itself.
It is no secret that bad behaviours are carried out by those who are insecure about themselves, their lives, their social status etc. and, as these people obtain senior positions in society, those who are younger, finding their feet must conform or face punishment, again sometimes very severe, such as loss of employment or becoming the focus of bullying, or even crucifixion etc. Thusly, society is broken because those who broke it are too weak to admit that the fault lies in them, not in their parents (sorry Freud), and attempt to fix it. Until this happens, bullying, rape, war, misogyny, racism etc. will continue until one day the last human looks around at the world, sees no one to blame but their self and dies of shame.
‘till next time